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So Why Do Women Have Sex? - Roseline Nya

I’m beginning to think that women enjoy playing the victim when it comes to their sexual interactions with men. ‘Oh, he lured me into having sex with him’, one says. ‘Oh, he said if I do it, he will do that’, another says. ‘Oh, he said he loves me’, yet another says’. I’m tired of hearing all these excuses from women! They sound childish and silly to me. I’ve only met a few women who have alluded to the fact that they have sex because they want to, and I admire them for it. But to the greater part of the population, why don’t you have sex because you want to and not because a man asked you to?” He was a cute stranger I met at a Lounge on the day I embarked on a mission to understand men’s perspectives on the science of one night stand, which generally refers to a single string-less sex encounter. The move itself was impelled by ** Rachel – a young woman who had cried foul to us, after a man she had only just met talked her into having sex with him, there and th...

Going Naked On Social Media - What's Your Take?

Trends, Latest and the new style is what the young teenagers all over the world now take as a study and living point. It might or might not be considered by humans that most of the actions taken has both its good and ugly side. Except one i guess, which is going naked on Social Media , i really don't see any thing good in it rather its all ugly . Why i said this, is my own take and i would love to hear your own take!! Kim Kardashian Poses Naked To Celebrate Her 35th Birthday Celebrities have deviated from what they do into what will improve their brand. A couple years back, a musician would get promoted through his/her music excellence but of recent, i think going naked is now the excellence point for them. (Don't violate your privacy just to get known). I still recall back when seeing a naked woman or man was irritating to the sight. Then girls would take their bath outside and all the boys would find somewhere to hide their faces. Is it still so? We tend to follow what these...

Something Out Of Nothing

Hello dear!! How are you today? Hope you ate and rested before coming online because what i have for you today will take a lot of your time and understanding but be sure to gain a lot from it. It's motivation came from nothing and that is why it's titled Something Out Of Nothing. While reading this article composed of various words brought together to give one specific meaning, i would like you to know a fact that " What you know is centered around what your have seen or en counted, or heard " and also that " everyone has it's own meaning of one word " . So should in case you find understanding this article hard, just try to consume it the way it comes to you. Have you ever wondered where past discoverers got there idea of elements and atoms from? Because if you do, curiosity should by now be part of your breathing. Elements where created out of nothing, the sense till date that entails the discovering of element can only be explained in a brief, by...

Uju Chukwu: Your Mind is a Power Tool

The thoughts in your head are a reflection of what your mouth says. How powerful can our thoughts be? Very very powerful. Has it ever happened that you thought of something, without having the intention of seeing it happen and the next minute you see it happen? Sometimes it might not be as fast as a minute; you might have gone for hours and the next thing you see, it happens. Most times, people even mistake it for a dejavu, but then it is just your thoughts. So if your thoughts can be this powerful, what then are we supposed to do? It’s pretty simple, guard them right. We need to think positive at all times. How does that work? It is a  conscious effort. I will list 2 major points of the conscious effort we have to make: By minding the things you let get into your head : Everybody has something to say, (the good, the bad, the ugly and the worse) but not everything everyone has to say is for you. You do not necessarily have to open up your mind to digest everything or every word th...

Busola Idowu: My Money… Our Money

I visited my friend Marilyn recently and while I was there, she received a package from a popular online vendor. She hurriedly discharged the dispatch rider, removed the packaging and promptly buried the wrapper deep within the garbage bag. Her reason was that she did not want her husband to return home to meet any residue of a new purchase in the house. She had recently harassed and begged him for money to buy some supposed necessaries including money to make her hair, on the pretext that she was very (very) broke. Now, this allegedly insolvent madam was making online purchases running into thousands of Naira. She reminded me of Isanah, my colleague to whom I had sold a lovely party dress some months before. After paying me, she immediately removed the tag and said she was going to hide the dress underneath the clothes in her cupboard for a while before she decides to wear it. If her husband asks, she would claim to have had it for months prior to its appearance and afte...

Is That Business Right For You?.

One of the things I am always curious about when I meet a business owner is how they chose the business they are currently doing. Some of the responses I usually get are; I was passionate about this and decided to make it a business. I saw a market opportunity and jumped at it. I wanted to make loads of money and someone told me this business would make me money! Each of these responses has their advantages and disadvantages. Passion :  Doing something you are passionate about gives you the required fuel to stick to it for the long haul because you are most likely doing something you would do for free whether you get paid or not. The down side to starting a business based on passion alone is that it might not have a viable market opportunity and you might end up getting frustrated. Market opportunity:  when you start a business because you saw a market opportunity, you are most likely going to make money early especially if you ride the wave of the opportunity very ...

Reasons Why You Should Eat More Fruits

 One of the main purpose of feeding is good health as what we eat reflect how strong and fit we will be. Aside from fruits being delicious and eye catching, it is also extremely medicinal and important for ones health either after meal or on a casual basis. The consumption of fruit is always highly recommended by nutritionists and doctors especially for individuals that are just recovering from illness because it is a dependable source of vitamins and minerals. It is important to munch on  fruits as often as possible and Jovago.com ,  Africa’s No 1 hotel booking portal  shares reasons why. Immunity The main function that the immune system performs is to protect the body from disease and keep it healthy. If this is weak, then you may be prone to infections. Hence, to shield the body from you have to take fruit which will provide the body with Vitamins C and E which will help combat infections. Without a proper immune system which fruits helps to maintain, deat...

Prisoner Of Uncertainty by Tolu Falode

Tolu Falode a freelance blogger who writes for Bella Naija and also runs her own blog The Flame of Faith drops a new article which reflects the Nigerian society in terms of Lifestyle and standard of Living. Her article Prisoner of Uncertainty talks more about poverty, suffering and various activities striking the average Nigerian in the street. Read Full Article bellow and refer to The Flame of Faith for more stories that touch by Tolu Falode.     Stories upon stories upon stories are told of how laughter is birthed through a grave of defeat-of how songs spring forth from a well of misery. But some people struggle with this revelation of another’s destiny. Some people find it hard to believe-could that truly happen to me? They whisper these thoughts uncertainly.   I understand that small voice-I have spoken with it before. It sits and wonders and then turns around and faces you with fears made in monstrous contours-of possibilities that cannot exist, of paths that you...

What to do After a Football Match

Football happen to be one of the most body wakening activity perfumed by both male and female, young and old why because its a refreshing, fun, strengthening, and body waste removing activity. One very nice thing about football is that you don't just play it nothing, it's unlike other activities. Football today is an occupation for many young stars, its a medium to burn of fats for most heavy bodied individuals, its a play ground for young children all over the world. In schools, on the streets, stadiums, it's all football. But it appears that this great sport is tiring to everybody. I can barely breathe after playing a football match no matter the time spent in the pitch by me. Its just so wakening but that's not enough reason to stop playing football all you need to do is "what to do after a football match ". Just talked about me as a person who just play ball for fun. What about he that play ball for money and a regular exercise?. Well he don't just n...

Top Illegal Activities Nigerians Involve in to Make Money With Reasons

Nigerians tend to be one of the most creative set of human beings ever created by the creator. Whenever there is a difficulty or change in living conditions such as circulation of wealth, availability of job opportunities and other conditions including Natural disasters. Africans have a high possibility of surviving. Taking a review back during the World Trade by Barter tragedy, Nigerians still stood to survive torture and oppression. Apart from being strong naturally, Nigerians are lovers of wealth, fame, Mansions, and Ladies. Yea ladies "we have passion for ladies even before our birth". This unending love and strength has paved way for young Nigerians to hustle no matter how hard it turns out to be. "Any which way na way". Have you ever taken your time to study an African? you would notice that there is jealousy towards what others have. Jealousy is in the blood of a Nigerian , Few months back a friend of mine who traveled abroad for over 6-years finally returne...

Reasons Why You Should Shop Online in Nigeria | E-commerce

Shopping is one thing every Nigerian want to do every minute of the day, whether the resources are there or not we just want to shop. Buying is actually ideal for you because apart from having to brush your teeth, tub and likely consume your meals, its the top hobby that hold you refreshed and happy. I additionally located that most ladies tend to go for shopping whenever they are sad or concerned as it help overlook painful emotional feelings like heartbreak and many more. Before now back in the 80s, buying and selling was referred to as a meeting of two in a place to make an agreement on a product but as time went on it became more hectic and emphasized. Markets are always jam-packed both supermarkets, shops and trading centers . This is bad and unsafe for various reasons which i will elaborate on a little for you understanding. Markets are Unhealthy : Aside from the supermarkets, trading centers are always dirty due to the high number of people disposing refuses at a time. This i...

How to Choose The Best Blogging Platform | Blogger Guide

In one of my blogger guide series first article " How to Become Successful in Blogging " i explained the team to you and also did a lot of reviews to you about having a free blog. (i advice you read it before this one). Today i will be specific with my words and explanations but i promise to make you understand each line so you can choose the best platform that will advance you in blogging. Actually before choosing a platform you need to first have the necessary requirements. I might have dived into this too quick because choosing a platform should be one of the last things to do. Assuming i made the decision intentionally, what would be the reason?. Do you want to have a successful blog? if yes just follow my steps and lets choose a platform. What are Blogging Platforms I once had a terrible problem with this step back then when i started blogging. I was very nervous, this made making a mistake my fear but i was lucky to be the "Patient" type. I advice you to prac...

How to Become Successful in Blogging | Bloggers Guide

  PART ONE    Blogging A Free Platform For All   Blogging which started back in then in 1997 was not really given much attention. (I don't think was a money machine then). During the early days of blogging it was refereed to as a weblog which has long been coined to blog. It was mainly used by politicians (electoral candidates) who used it as a publicity medium for their campaign and a few other individuals who probably used it for criticizing the government. Ever since the invention of blogging it has been a free platform for users except for those who wanted to add more features like registering of domains , buying premium templates etc. The fun in blogging is that everything is your choice. Important decisions, articles (posts), audience, design, domain name, everything is design just to suit your taste. Its yours and with hard work you can become that rich n famous celebrity just the same way Linda Ikeji , Jide of Ogbonge blog made it. Also Read: Patience One...