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I’m beginning to think that women enjoy playing the victim when it comes to their sexual interactions with men. ‘Oh, he lured me into having sex with him’, one says. ‘Oh, he said if I do it, he will do that’, another says. ‘Oh, he said he loves me’, yet another says’. I’m tired of hearing all these excuses from women! They sound childish and silly to me. I’ve only met a few women who have alluded to the fact that they have sex because they want to, and I admire them for it. But to the greater part of the population, why don’t you have sex because you want to and not because a man asked you to?” He was a cute stranger I met at a Lounge on the day I embarked on a mission to understand men’s perspectives on the science of one night stand, which generally refers to a single string-less sex encounter. The move itself was impelled by ** Rachel – a young woman who had cried foul to us, after a man she had only just met talked her into having sex with him, there and th...

Trends, Latest and the new style is what the young teenagers all over the world now take as a study and living point. It might or might not be considered by humans that most of the actions taken has both its good and ugly side. Except one i guess, which is going naked on Social Media , i really don't see any thing good in it rather its all ugly . Why i said this, is my own take and i would love to hear your own take!! Kim Kardashian Poses Naked To Celebrate Her 35th Birthday Celebrities have deviated from what they do into what will improve their brand. A couple years back, a musician would get promoted through his/her music excellence but of recent, i think going naked is now the excellence point for them. (Don't violate your privacy just to get known). I still recall back when seeing a naked woman or man was irritating to the sight. Then girls would take their bath outside and all the boys would find somewhere to hide their faces. Is it still so? We tend to follow what these...

A Facebook user, Victoria Onwuchekwa , has got many of her followers talking and reacting! By posting some relationship issues or intimacy on her user account. Talking about why she thinks women love sex more than men, read what Victoria Onwuchekwa posted on her page below: So do you Think she is right?

I need help! I don’t know what’s wrong with me but I think I’m losing my husband and almost ruining my marriage of less than 1 year, since we got married we haven’t stayed two weeks without quarreling. My husband has a big heart and is a genuinely good man but I think all the trouble I have given him is beginning to change him. Our fights have been nothing short of unnecessary. We argue over the most irrelevant things such as money, time and normal human errors. When we do, We involve ourselves in the nastiest war of words, there is no hurtful word in this world that we have not called each other up to the extent that I hit him severally (I get physical). In the past when I over reacted, he has always forgiven me and shown me unconditional love but this recent time after we quarreled again , I think he has drawn away from me a bit, he now avoids me (guess he’s avoiding trouble). I know he still loves me and wants the marriage to work but something in me keeps brewing animosity towards ...

Some women sit silently in a house of pain afraid to open the door of possibility, afraid to face the breath of blessings waiting and pounding with the wind on the door. They stay clattered, constrained, confused in a space of familiarity as they face the pain and internal disaster that comes from walking with a partner that does not provide comfort, shelter, peace, prosperity but instead gives pain, pressure, doubt, distraction-all because they are afraid of that door. They stare at it sure enough-they stare at it and dream of the possibilities on the other side –what could happen if I ventured outside she silently wonders? She has no clue about the cost of her constraint on her true worth-value diminished in a house of dust, cobwebs clinging to walls of whispered promises that never weave into actions of warmth. But she still sits, waiting and hoping for some change-some chance to clean this house up again-misunderstanding there is no path for answers in the dirt road of disaster. In...

Break up seems to be one great drama that spoils every other drama that has ever happened, it's still one of the biggest way of getting depressed , now this is why recovering is important in other to help us live right again and see things positively because according to recent discovering "being depressed changes the way you see things even colours".  I have made a lot of researches on how to heal the heart of such disaster, this is while though i have put a lot of effort inside it to make it look more elegant and helpful, Psychology Today talks on " Break Up Blues: 13 Thoughts to Help Recover ". I hope it helps you and lightens your world. If you are puzzling as to why there are more breakups during the holidays than other times of the year, you are not alone. There are a plethora of articles about relationships tumbling down the rabbit hole.  However, if your heart is breaking because your love has left you, it is perhaps more important to look forward t...

Sexual Infections Although condoms are prescribed to reduce the spread of infections. Ironically, the latex allergies which are the strongest deterrent against Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) cause women to end up with yeast infections and others. Yeast infection simply means that too many yeast cells are growing in the woman’s “private part.” It is very common but don’t let it bother you too much because it can be easily treated. No Children (Birth) Some ladies do everything they can to avoid their partner using condoms. This is because they want children. They feel the best way to totally own a man is to be pregnant for him. However, they seduce their man to sleep with them without using a condom as such, they ‘hook’ the man when pregnancy surfaces. Condom Breaks It is better not to use a condom at all if it will end up breaking. Sometimes, while the heat is on and there is a high level of friction, a condom could break thereby exposing the woman to...

Obviously, I’m not a relationship expert. But there’s something about my divorce being finalized this week that gives me perspective of things I wish I would have done different… After losing a woman that I loved, and a marriage of almost 16 years, here’s the advice I wish I would have had 1. Never stop courting. Never stop dating. Never ever take that woman for granted. When you asked her to marry you, you promised to be that man that would own her hear and to fiercely protect it. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. She choose you. Never forget that, and never get lazy in your love. 2. Protect your own heart.  Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife. Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or a...

Nigerian ladies are quite one of the most interesting characters if not the most predictive. Its well known that every man desire something from a woman before making the decision to go on a chase but the actual issue here is what is this unique property that triggers the chasing attitude of a man as if he is a lion going for a hunt. This has led some women into making personal observations and has landed in various conclusions some will say its my beauty, my face, my shape . hmm quite interesting that's why i mentioned earlier that Nigerian girls are interesting and predictive. But before making my own conclusion on this i also had to do a lot of researches and interviews with some reasonable Nigerians both ladies and men because i had to figure out what she as a lady thinks! and what he as a guy actually desire! before such conclusion could be made. My review might contradict yours that is why we have the comment box below. If you have also tried this research you would figure ...

You have kissed a lot of girls but none of t ever call you a good kisser or you the shy type afraid of kissing?. Every one always have these problems although some persons find easy being a good kisser. Well lets say they are lucky to have such talent but what about you how isn't a good kisser?. Can i become a good kisser ? is that what you are asking yourself?. Well stop the doubts you can become a good kisser. This issue of having boring kisses is between the both parties so if your girl isn't also that good in kissing then share this post with her. I experienced this few years back, it all felt like my ex could kiss more than my girlfriend. It was all really boring for me but me being considerate i thought of her also and knew she too was bored. guest what i did? Do you know boring kisses can lead you into cheating or even flirting? yes it can, it has happened and still happening. I still remember when a friend who had a crush on me kissed me surprisingly. Whenever i remem...

Hello dear. Loneliness is one of the very big thing young teenagers like you fear. And if you just had a breakup and you are feeling lonely well dear you are not. Its just a feeling not reality. You might also be thinking that your life is over well dear once again you are wrong. You life is still far from over. You might also be feeling like he/she is the best for me. Well dear that's another lie, he/she is not the best because the best is still yet to come. If you are having all these feelings its normal for you its part of life that's why its called a break up. But just so you get a little understanding before we continue all these above named feelings and questions are all tagged under depression. You are only being depressed, so dear don't cry your self out you are still very young and your future is very much better and brighter than your present. What is Break Up  Lots of things happen during and before a break up. But most times in the life of young te...